This tattoo should symbolize an Unfaithful adulterous wife who is available despite being married and her husband loves it.
Hi, I am trying to find someone that can get me the art work and stencil for a tattoo design. I would like black and white for the most part as i find colour seems to fade and i am trying to avoid that.
The tattoo can be explicit to some degree.. but not overtly vulgar. basically, i am looking for a tattoo that symbolizes my wife being an adulterous woman who enjoys the pleasures of other men, not including her husband... and that her husband, is ok with this. We would like this tattoo to identify me as a cuckold, without saying "cuckold". We also want this tattoo to be not so obvious to anyone not in that lifestyl.. but as obvious as hell to anyone in hte lifestyle.
A succss, would be if men approached us after seeing the tattoo on my arm and indicated that he would like to be her bull... but it would be a disaster if, the design resulted in people not in the know, gave dirty looks and started to look at us as evil inhumane people... I need to be able to explain the tattoo to family members as though it is not intended for what it is..
Ok some terms you need to know about.
CUCKOLD = a man who's wife sleeps with other men. The cuckold may or may not be aware of this. horns are often a symbol of a man that is a cuckold... in ancient times, when a baby of different colour was born to a family, the husband would be forced to wear a hat with horns.. to symbolize that his house is out of order and that his wife had an affair. Today, many cuckolds are aware of the affair and are actually charged with the responsbility of not only being faithful to their adulterous wife, but also to find superior high quality men for her. (phsyically).. his job is to please her in the bedroom, by finding men that are better than he... younger, stronger, bolder whatever.
The term cuckold can NOT be used in the tattoo as it is too vulgar and well known.When people ask what it means, there is nothing to say other than what it means and that leads to the wrong people knowing what the tattoo is about... cuckold is a term however that would be tattood under a wedding ring.. as a way to force a man to continue to wear it, and be faithful, otherwise, his family and friends will know they can have his wife. So a tattoo under my ring finger i would do... but the term cuckold can not be used in the design of a tattoo that goes on my arm... and visable when i pull up my sleeves.
HOTWIFE: = this is the wife of a cuckold. A hotwife, is a woman that is allowed to or does it without her husband knowing. The term hotwife, means a married woman that sleeps with men other than her husband and loves it. this term should and can be used in the tattoo design, since it can easily be explained as "my wife is hot". But to anyone in the lifestyle, they know what it really means. this is a sexy word to include.
BULL = a bull is the term for the man that is sleeping with the hotwife. The bull is usually physically superior to the husband. Bigger, better and stronger. The bull should always been seen as a more powerful, superior physical and sexual being. the hotwife, is usually bored with the married life sexual routine.. and so the bull is the answer. The hotwife, should have all of her sexual wants and passions answered by the bull... her feeling is, "finally, someone that pleases me".. there is a lot of humiliation between the bull and the cuckold.. if the cuckold is in the room, the bull will take charge and do what he wants with the hotwife. and the hubby will be made aware of every little thing the bull does well or superior to the cuckold. A bull is an important symbol to include in this tattoo... men that look for married women, can call themselves a bull and will often report, "if there are any married women, looking for a bull contact me".. in online profiles.
Black/White = usually, black bulls mean black men, white bulls white men.. we are gender neutral or leaning toward white.. meaning, it is not the black man we are going after in this tattoo... it is a "superior" man we are going after...
Male symbol = the male symbol is used to mean, man and female to mean woman. Obviously. But there are things to note. a black male symbol is black man. as stated above, that is not the key feature on this tattooo... rather, the symbol should be race ambiguous, if used at all.. the graphic i've included looks great to sow bull, male and female symbols.. but it shows black bull.. and black men.. not a message i want.
Also, the male symbol sizes matter. The bull's male symbol or the other man's symbol, should alwasy have a much thicker and longer arrow. for obvious reasons. the husbands male symbol should hav a very small arrow and not thick. The thickness and size of the symbol in general symbolizes superiority in all areas.
If the arrow goes through the female symbol implies inside her.. however, you could also have many male symbols hanging off the female symbol like a key chain.. this means, she has many men at her beck and call.. slightly different from, she has one really amazing lover other than her husband.
the use of these symbols may be useful but has to be done carefully as it may be too obvious or hard to explain. the one below, i would explain to others, as, to keep the girl from going to other men, you need to hold on to her and you need to be strong... but to someon ein the lifestyle, they know this means, my wife likes to be taken by bulls.. that is the kinda wiggle room i'm looking for.
pictures: = if done well, a picture of my wifes body on a bulll could represent her riding a bull.. very good concept. but if done like porn could be a problem. Possible way to include the male symbols is to have the sexy woman, my wifes body riding an agressive bull and loving every minute of it.. and the bull literally crushing a small male symbold on the ground.. maybe the woman is loving that the bull is doing this.. this would symbolize superiority of the bull, the womans love of humiliation to hubby and preference of bull but it could be explained as my wife and i are on top of the world, and we can crush any man that comes between us... again, wiggle room.
Adriana = my wifes name... if it is used.. alwasy think about the future and how easily it can be covered or erased..
Hotwife = great to use somewhere
Bull = picture of a bull probably better...
The tattoo should be easily recognizable by people in the lifestyle so that they know we are a cuckold couple. Success would be if some random guy, walks up to us at the beach or in a club, and says, hi, i noticed your tattoo... is that reflective of your current relationship?? if i say yes.. then he should say, well i'd love to join you guys some time...
A failure, would be if this tatto on the beach resulted in people talking and pointing and being offended and asking me to cover it up and i should be ashamed of myself... WRONG people understood it! :) lol.
I like many ideas and am looking for several.. what i don't put on my body i hope to make art and put on my walls. The idea of a woman riding a bull with some type of wording is something i've thought about... but i don't want to limit it ot that.. it might be tacky.. but the idea of... "this hotwife loves to ride her bulls" obviously too many words.. but should be the idea... and my wearing it may signify being aware of it and being ok with it...
I also like the idea of the graphic of my wife, being taken by another man..total lust, but maybe the man is personified as a bull... and maybe a reference to another man who is losing her or not involved... this could be explained as, i'm the bull taking her from other men, or the bull takes her from me...
I've given all the information i think you need. please keep in mind that i am not a designer and I knwo what i like when i see it.. don't jsut try to do what i said i might like.. because i might hate it...
the goal is SEXY...
I would love to encorporate, Adriana, Hotwife and a bull picture into it... all indicating the superiority of the bull. It should not look like, i'm upset my wife cheated.. it should look like to the view in the know, that i am looking for men all the time to please her... Also, i am very successful in life.. so it can't look like a jail tat, or some type of cheap tat.. simple is ok as this doesn't imply poor quality.. but sometimes too much detail ends up looking blurry and bad. it will be my only tattoo and i am not a guy that you would think has a tattoo...
The winner of this conest, will have succesfully, managed to get a professional, high end look, recognizing the notition that my wife is available for men to have and that her husband is supportive of that. threesome references are also ok... but not the goal.
I have included pics of my wifes body, and a sample of a very simple tattoo that was found on the net.. this does get some of the concepts, but notice, black bull not good.. also a little basic.. but simple like this is not a bad thing... but more complicated is also not bad.. i don't know what i like until i see it.
- Contest Length: 14 Days
- Gender: Male
- Size: 5 x 6 inches
- Detail: Medium Detail Design
- Winning artist must provide stencil / line work at completion of contest
Appended Description (May 9 2012 12:45pm):
As time goes on, i've become more convinced of the design i'm looking for. that would be my wife, pics included, riding a bull, that is stomping on a male symbol. She should be having huge boobs popping out, and barely covered up, wiht a very small skimpy shorts/panties on... the outline of nipples are ok, but still covered... she should look like my wife.. and she should be loving her experinece riding the bull.. extacy... the bull should be strong and powerful and stomping on a male symbol.. like it's destroying it, and the woman on the bull is in "extacy".. again..
the wording should read, "A HOTWIFE TO DIE FOR"... and also a spot for her name, "adriana"... but keep in mind, the name should be such that it can be covered up in the future if required...
it is not porn, but it should be very sexy and people need to be able to see it from a distance of say 10 ft.. and see that it is a pic of a woman on a bull and the words, "A HOTWIFE TO DIE FOR"... THE WORD hotwife is super important... the pic of the bull is also super important... the name adriana, should be somewhere... but when you do the name, consider if the time ever comes, how it can be covered up and not ruin the tattoo...
pics of my wife are available on my facebook page
chris almas from hamilton ontario.. i have many pics of her there... the more realistic the better... i do not like cartoony pics.. and the more "extacy passion" demonstrated the better... the bull should be strong and powerful... any reference to me, should be by way of a small symbol.. and it being crushed... any other creative way to encorporate me would be considered.. but the idea is a double meaning..
1) i am the bull
2) i am the symbol or not the bull
this is how i separate those in the know and those out of hte know...
if i am explaining it to someone out of the know.. i will say that my wife is hot as hell and i love her... and that i will carry her on my back and destroy any other men that try to get in our way... i have an inflammatory temperment and she is able to handle me... a true hotwife to die for.. everyone would want her..
if it was someon in the know.. they wouldn't need explanation they would simply say hi, i noticed your tattoo... very nice.. and i would say, thanks... this is my wife adriana... or thanks, where are you from etc... so it would start a conversation...
Above all else this tattoo would have a great deal of meaning and so i am going to be trying to help with as much feedback as i can.
Appended Description (May 14 2012 10:49am):
is a link of the general type of bull i see... i would just rather it be kicking and back side twisted more to the viewers right... this will give a great angle of the girl, for breasts, and also long legs and face.. very sensual.
This contest has been pre-paid. The winning artist will be paid directly by CreateMyTattoo via Paypal.